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Set a threshold of emotional investment with women so that you limit your potential pain from them. If you find it difficult to flirt and hit on the ladies because it's too painful, back off a bit. Just say *Hi!* as you pass them on the street. Reduce your energy output so that you don't feel impacted by her response. When you get sufficiently recharged, you can then start to risk more contact with her again, and you'll feel more up to the challenge.
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The double standard is that there is this MYTH that somehow a woman’s affection is worth more than a man’s. As if men enjoyed women but women did not enjoy men. Why do I say this? Simple: Most men go OUT OF THEIR WAY to get a woman’s attention and affection, buying endless dinners, doing favors, giving compliments, endless respect, even if the woman is NOT interested! Or worse, even if the woman is MIStreating them.
Do women do this for men? Of course not. If you are a guy who grew up observing this phenomenon, it would be easy to get the wrong idea and think that women need to be persuaded, tricked, impressed, appeased, or bribed in order to be sexual with a man. |
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Chances are you are going to get your advances rejected by women. And some women will turn you down when you ask them to dance. Most men give up on meeting women after they have been rejected a couple of times. They get frustrated and just drink more to drown their sorrows and go home with their tale between their legs. You must never give up! You must be persistent! Keep approaching women until you meet someone who is interested in you. If you don't have any luck in the bar or nightclub, just leave and go to another place and maybe you will have better luck. Just keep trying to score with someone if it takes you all night.
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Unless your girl is extremely insecure, most times she will just use your extra NICENESS, your submission to her requests, as the beginning of her journey towards completely controlling you.
And when that happens, her good-bye to you forever is coming soon. So instead, just tell her *So you want me to change the way I call you, huh? Okay, how about I call you Nancy?* Then when she protests, say, okay. *Fine, I'll call you Angela*. And on and on and on, and she will get the idea. (feel free to use whatever humor you want, just get the principle here) But if you get angry, she will just feel like she must really be onto something important and you will reinforce belief that you are doing something wrong. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- |
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